1. Your friendly neighborhood emergency room visit
Sickness is something that is going to affect the both of you. As you start your life together, be open about your health….very open. Even if you have had a full recovery, your spouse deserves to know if you are at risk for certain sicknesses, repercussions from surgery, or a scary relapse. Don't take "in sickness and in health" lightly; your spouse deserves to know if a serious illness is potentially going to be a part of your relationship. It's personal, but hiding your health isn't going to do you or your spouse any favors.
2. Money, Money, Money
Money can be a touchy subject, but being honest can help avoid miscommunication and misunderstanding. Keeping debt a secret isn't going to last for long. Even with separate bank accounts, debt will catch up to you. Being honest about finances lets you both create a budget that works for your life together. Don't let your spouse find out about financial trouble the hard way; Be honest about salaries, potential downsizing at work, and where the money is going. If you're a shopper,tell your spouse and work something out. Having an agreed upon 'personal spending' account still lets you have the flexibility to splurge on something just for you, but doesn't keep your partner in the dark about money. Win-win.
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